Okay, so here is the dealio. i have been self-harming for 3 years now, and i am trying to stop. i recently went 6 weeks before relapsing again, but i sa an idea. Everyone who reblogs this post, i will write your url on a peice of paper and put it in a jar, and when i feel the urge to self-harm i will pull out a name and send you a message of sorts. i realize this isnt my idea but it is a good one. thanks.